Swinger Parties and Orgies


If you want to get into the realm of weird and unconventional, then swinger parties are a good place to start. They are essentially parties in which married couples all get together and swap partners for a night (i.e. have sex with someone new for a change). In most cases, the swapping is done randomly, typically by having the men put their car keys in a bowl and having the women pull out car keys at random, but sometimes the swaps can be done by choice.

Because the main point of a swinger party is the sex that comes at the end, there is a lot less emphasis placed on the more common party elements. Sure, there are often snacks and drinks to hold the men and women over, as well as light music to add to the overall ambiance, but this is all done with the goal of creating an environment that facilitates couples getting comfortable and flirty with other people.

So if you and your spouse decide to go to a swinger party, just keep an open mind, and remember that everyone else who attends is there for the same reason that you are there, so don’t be shy or embarrassed about what you are doing. Once you get past that mindset, you’ll end up having a great night that ultimately ends with you in bed with another person’s spouse (which is all in good fun).

Orgies are essentially when swinger parties are taken to the extreme. These typically involve couples that know each other fairly well, and are comfortable not just swapping partners, but swapping partners all while having sex in the same room. Sex becomes the main focus of the “party” rather than conversations that lead to sex after the party, as in the case with Swinger parties.

If you go to an orgy, expect to be a bit freaked out your first time. You will end up seeing people you know completely naked and having sex with their own spouses, and potentially your spouse as well. There may even be significant involvement of sex toys to help make the overall sex more exotic and extreme. And everyone will be completely sweaty and smelly, by the end of the night (which actually indicates that the orgy was a success).

Whether you are interested in attending a swinger party or an orgy, remember to always keep an open mind and you should (although not always) find the overall experience quite the sexual thrill!